Why I do this work.
I grew up in Szczecin, Poland, without many examples of genuinely happy relationships around me. I watched people I loved struggle — and I felt it myself, in relationships that were difficult, or simply wrong. That experience made me curious rather than cynical. I wanted to understand what actually makes a relationship work over the long term.
For years I worked as an architect. When I changed direction, it wasn't a detour — it was the most deliberate decision I've made. I wanted to do work I believed in at the deepest level, and I'd come to believe that nothing shapes a life more than the relationships at the centre of it.
I trained as a relationship coach and found in the work of Dr Wyatt Fisher a method that matched exactly what I'd come to believe: that resentment is the root issue, and that resolving it — systematically and calmly — is what allows everything else to change.
"Most couples aren't fighting because they don't love each other. They're fighting because unresolved resentment has made it feel unsafe to connect."
Now I'm a wife and a mother. My husband is Italian, and I understand from the inside what it takes to build a strong relationship across different cultures, languages, and expectations. I know how much daily effort genuine connection requires — and how quickly that effort pays off when you have the right tools.
I work with couples who are stuck, who are hurting, and who still care enough to try. I also work with individuals — people navigating their own relationship patterns, healing after a breakup, or preparing for something healthier. My approach is structured and practical — not open-ended talking, but a clear process with a clear direction.