Resentment doesn’t appear suddenly.
It grows quietly when important needs remain unspoken, unmet, or repeatedly overlooked — until disconnection sets in.

Boundaries are often mistaken for distance or rejection.
In reality, they are what make emotional closeness feel safe, sustainable, and possible over time.

Most recurring arguments aren’t about the topic at hand.
They’re signals of the same unmet emotional need resurfacing in different forms — until it’s finally understood.

Emotional distance rarely begins with a major rupture.
It develops quietly through small moments of disconnection that accumulate over time — often without either partner noticing.